Looking For Love? Tips for Singles.. -I like this entry.. Di Tulis Oleh a very famous and talented Brunei News Editor..
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1. Are you desperate? A lot of people want to find love so desperately that they're already imagining marriage and kids and the white picket fence after meeting somebody for the first time. These people tend to fall in love, or what they think is love too quickly before they even get to know the person. It's a case of too much, too soon. Their crush may or may not realise it, and may or may not return the affections. Much of the affair is played out in your head. And when your crush fails to respond to you in the way you want them to, or return your feelings, you start to feel there is no hope. You may feel not worthy of that person because of the high pedestal you've put them on. Smelling desperation may even cause your crush to behave badly towards you.This does no good for your self esteem. So here's a tip: Don't invest your emotions too early on. Force yourself (this may not be easy) to not care. Think "Friends first". Anything more than friends will be icing on the cake. Don't get your hopes up. That way, you won't be let down.
2. Do you feel Bitter towards the opposite sex? A lot of girls and guys may have been let down by the opposite sex in the past, affecting their views towards them now. You can't complain about not having a boyfriend/girlfriend while at the same time generalising about men (or women) with notions such as: "All the good ones are taken"; "There are no more good looking, smart ones out there"; or "All men want is money and ***". Positive thinking brings positive results. And the same with negative thinking. Remember that.
3. Are You Afraid? That you'll never find that special someone and the clock is ticking? There's no need to panic when your best friend and friends are pairing up with boyfriends/girlfriends. Instead of begrudging your friends in love, be happy for them - and think to yourself - "That'll be me soon". Lose the fear factor and replace it with: "I deserve to be loved and love comes easily to me" Affirm this everyday. It'll make you a more attractive person. Self confidence and inner security attracts people. Fear repels them and sabotages any chance of love coming to you.